mis·take noun1 : an unintentional error esp. in legal procedure or form that does not indicate bad faith and that warrants excuse or relief 2 : an erroneous belief: as a : a state of mind that is not in accordance with the facts existing at the time a contract is made b : a misconception at the time of fact
Mistake: To take in a wrong sense; to misunderstand misapprehend, or misconceive
Mistake: to commit an unintentional error.

now that there is no confusion to what a mistake really is.. i want to pass on my feelings about this word to all of you i dont believe we are capable of making a mistake..
ill break it down by each definition:

1 : an unintentional error esp. in legal procedure or form that does not indicate bad faith and that warrants excuse or relief
as far as i see it.. we can in fact make errors.. that is most definitely true .. but an error is not equal to a mistake
do we always just excuse peoples "mistakes"
if you make a "mistake" at job interview.. are you gonna get the job
if you make an "mistake" on a test.. will the teacher relieve your "mistake"
if you make a "mistake" and drive drunk and die.. is "god" going to be like oh its okay go back to earth you didnt mean it..
no
therefore this definition does not cut it.. it cannot be proven that all mistakes are excused and you really can never know what someone else is thinking so you cannot know their motives for what they do.. so whos to say there is no ill will involved.. mistakes are supposedly not intentional.. but .. whos to judge intention?
for example.. driving drunk.. youre intention was to get drunk.. you should have made someone designated driver.. but you didnt.. cause you were being irresponsible.. you know that driving after or while drinking is not safe and causes your perception of things to be a bit off.. it can cause accidents.. if you know this and still do not have a designated.. then youre not making a mistake.. youre just plain stupid.. and as horrible as this is about to sound.. you deserve getting in an accident for being so stupid.. its not a mistake .. more like a complete disregard for your... or anyone elses lives.. its just plain selfish and irresponsible.


2 : an erroneous belief: as a : a state of mind that is not in accordance with the facts existing at the time a contract is made b : a misconception at the time of fact
an erroneous belief.. who passes judge on whether a belief is erroneous or not..
muslims would say that catholic beliefs are erroneous and vice versa.. every religion has their own beliefs.. but they all believe in the same god.. how can they all be right.. or maybe they arent.. maybe they are all wrong.. maybe religion is one giant "mistake"
not a comforting thought..
what you believe to be right or wrong .. depends on where you live and how you are raised different people see right and wrong different ways.. and if there is no universal right or wrong.. how can anyone pass judgement on someone elses beliefs.. or whether they are erroneous
a state of mind.. that is not in accordance with fact..
what is fact..
fact–noun
1. something that actually exists; reality; truth
2. a truth known by actual experience or observation; something known to be true
well.. this is a bit more complicated.. but yet again.. this goes back to nature and nurture.. they way you are raised and where you are from.. thats what is going to determine what you believe to be true or false..
and everyone experiences things in different ways.. you can show a blind person an apple and let them feel it and taste it.. but the way they see it .. will be different from a person who has all their senses.. they are doing the same things.. but their experiences will be so much different..
therefore.. what one person believes to be true.. can be completely different from what others believe

Mistake: to commit an unintentional error.
error –noun
1. a deviation from accuracy or correctness
2. a moral offense; wrongdoing; sin.

when do we commit errors intentionally..
the only time i can think of.. is if we are trying to hurt or sabotage someone or something else
but.. theoretically .. all errors we make.. are our own faults.. and it may not be our own intention to commit said error.. but what we believe causes us to make them.. or what we dont believe in for that matter..
and our intentions are to follow what we believe.. therefore every action we make or anything we say we do it intentionally..
for example..
if you dont study for an exam .. you will not do as well if you had studied.. so your intentions of not studying.. whether it be cause you just didnt feel like it or some underlying reason.. caused you to fail or make errors on that exam.. are you at fault.. or is it someone elses fault that you failed? was it your intentions that caused your demise or did you unintentionally put off the work you needed to do? .. its your own damn fault.. man up.. take the responsibility for your actions.. dont say it was a "mistake" .. cause if it was as unintentional as you want to believe.. you would not let it happen again.. and i guarantee that you will make said "mistake" again.. ignorance is not bliss.. its just ignorance

cause we as human beings are creatures of habit.. we are weak.. and we make the same "mistakes" over and over again..

all actions we do.. we want to do at some point or another.. or we are compelled to do them or make a certain decision.. dont go through your life thinking you dont want to make a mistake .. and not try things just cause you dont want to make a mistake.. do everything you fucking want.. cause thats what life is all about making decisions .. right or wrong.. stick by the choice you make

feel free to pick this apart and prove me wrong..id love for you to..
im sure i talked in circles and maybe i didnt even make my point.. but hopefully you get what im saying
thanks for reading this long ass journal..

have a great day.. free from the worry of making a mistake
kbye <3